What do u do when you expect something and you do not get what you are wanting out of the situation? Do I compromise and say alright forget it, thats not the way they want it.. or do I confront them and let them know that this is how I feel...What if they say "no! this is how i like it and this is how it will be " It will hurt my ego, u know. What do i do?Swallow it with as little pride that is remaining and act like I never spoke about it. or let the offence that was taken show on my face, in my words and actions and let my anger out.
supposing they do what i want them to do after i tell them to do it , i still wouldnt be happy because id feel they did it only after i told them to do it and not out of their own will. confused? ya me too... im writing gibberish but i dont care. Anybody readin this has any answers to any of my questions please help!